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Intyatyambo Yesizwe creates safe for teen mothers in Mfuleni

Phiri Cawe|Published

Lisa Manqayi, who is a teen mom, urges young girls to stay away from the boys and focus on their books.

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An old Sotho idiom, mmangwana o tshwara thipa ka bogaleng, speaks powerfully to the women of Mfuleni and Blue Downs and the work of Intyatyambo Yesizwe Teen Moms, an organisation dedicated to supporting young mothers.

Loosely translated as “a mother holds the knife by the sharp edge,” the phrase symbolises a woman’s immense strength, resilience, and willingness to endure pain to protect her children and family in the face of hardship.

The courageous mothers behind Intyatyambo Yesizwe have stepped forward to create a safe and supportive space for teen mothers.

Their programmes include parenting classes, sisterhood circles, teen mom-and-baby picnics, career guidance, life skills training, and mental health talks.

Founder Ntombesizwe Basso said the initiative was born after witnessing the challenges faced by young mothers in the community.

“It was in 2019 when I kept seeing young girls pushing prams with their babies.

"Some were sitting on street corners. Out of concern and curiosity, I spoke to them. Many shared painful family stories - some had been chased out of their homes after falling pregnant, while others spoke of absent baby fathers who had run away, leaving them to face life alone.

"I felt compelled to start the NPO. I wanted to give them hope and help them rebuild their lives,” she said.

At the time, she was working at the Family and Marriage Society of South Africa (FAMSA) and drew on her education and experience from the organisation to support young mothers and address the challenges they face.

"What’s even more inspiring is that many return to volunteer or donate clothes and other essentials. It is truly rewarding to see young people taking positive steps to change their lives,” she said.

Ntombesizwe Basso established a non-profit to bring hope and confidence to young mothers.

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The organisation continues to visit schools, engaging with young people about the realities and challenges of teenage pregnancy.

On April 23, Lisa Manqayi, 20, shared her personal story of falling pregnant at the age of 17. Speaking candidly, she urged pupils not to rush into relationships.

“I feel stuck. I’m no longer in school, while my peers are continuing with their education. I want to go back, but I have responsibilities.

"The father of my child is still in school, while I stay behind to care for the baby. Don’t entertain boys while you are still at school. I have had to grow up quickly. I regret my choices, but I love my child,” she said.

The organisation has visited schools across the metro, spreading awareness and offering support. For more information, the organisation can be contacted via WhatsApp on 063 007 4609 or by calling 072 343 9435.

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